Past, Present, or Future?

Most of us don’t realize how much we live in one timeframe. Past, present, or future: which one quietly rules yours?

Some people live in the past. Every Christmas is compared to the Christmases before it. Traditions, rituals, and family memories bring joy and meaning. There’s a sweet nostalgia in remembering “how it used to be.”

Others thrive in the present. They’re fully engaged wherever they are, giving all their energy and attention to the people in front of them. They don’t dwell on yesterday or worry about tomorrow;

they just live life as it comes.

And then there are those of us who live in the future (that’s me). The first day of school barely begins and I’m already imagining the year’s end. A crisp fall day arrives and instead of soaking it in, I feel the dread of the Northwest winter creeping closer.

The truth is, each time orientation has its strengths and blind spots. And maybe the wisest way forward is to borrow from each perspective.

• From the past: Take a moment to remember who you were and what you loved before life got so heavy. Look at old pictures. Reconnect with people who remind you of your roots. The past can offer clues about what still brings life and joy today.

• From the present: Slow down. Notice your blessings. Someone, somewhere, would love to have the very things you take for granted. Gratitude and mindfulness keep us grounded.

• From the future: Ask yourself—where are my choices leading me? What can I adjust today so that my future self will thank me? Small, intentional steps now add up to a very different tomorrow.

Maybe the invitation isn’t to pick one lens, but to notice our natural bias and practice learning from the others. That’s where real growth happens. With a little awareness, we can draw wisdom from all three... honoring the past, savoring the present, and shaping a hopeful future.